Note: If you’re here hoping to find links to the video, you’re at the wrong place. Check out this link for a more interesting picture instead.
I guess most everyone knows about the sex video involving this NYP girl supposedly named Tammy.
Some people are saying how she’s not a decent girl, how she’s a slut, and how shameful it is for her. Others feel bad for her, empathizing with her, and wondering how she can face the world again. I do feel bad for her, but that’s beside the point of this post.
What puzzles me is - why is all the attention heaped on the girl?
According to reports, the guy face could be seen clearly as well. But not many people are criticizing him for his role in the video, no one is saying that he’s a bad guy, and certainly no one is wondering how he would face the world again.
As if he did nothing wrong.
And perhaps, it was something for him to be proud of.
It’s a sick world we live in.
Too bad if it’s true. It just goes to show how you have to be careful with what you do in front of a camera.
Comment by Taffy — February 21, 2006 @ 1:56 am
probably because the people who wank to it are only concerned abt the girl. its hard to wank to someone if you feel bad for her at the same time
Comment by visceral — February 21, 2006 @ 2:36 am
You assume that there’s something wrong with what the girl did too.
Comment by Agagooga — February 21, 2006 @ 4:22 am
Reminds me of story of the women caught in adultery.
Comment by Desmond Tan — February 21, 2006 @ 8:45 am
I think she made an error of judgement, that it was foolish to leave a clip on her mobile. thats not equivalent to her having sinned or done something wrong per se. the person who should really be penalised in this fiasco is probably the person who stole her mobile and decided to distribute the contents
Comment by visceral — February 21, 2006 @ 9:31 am
Sick indeed. Betty Friedan’s dead and some things still haven’t changed. How long before we realize ho bags are ho bags, period?
Comment by the screwy skeptic — February 21, 2006 @ 9:39 am
agag: you assume that i assume that there’s something wrong with what the girl did?
Comment by tinkertailor — February 21, 2006 @ 9:42 am
It was this line that led to the assumption that you assumed there was something wrong with what the girl did.
‘As if he did nothing wrong.’
Comment by mliss — February 21, 2006 @ 9:56 am
i see.
i’m saying the people who seem to think that the girl was doing something wrong don’t seem to think that the guy was doing anything wrong.
Comment by tinkertailor — February 21, 2006 @ 10:08 am
Why the attention on the girl only?
Sad to say, most of the people on the internet are heterosexual males with too much time on their hands.
Comment by Merv — February 21, 2006 @ 11:36 am
i think the crowd has simply left the male out of the picture because he is incidental to it where they are concerned. the problem is not that they had sex. ple have sex, many of them underaged. what distinguishes this incident is that the recording has been distributed
Comment by visceral — February 21, 2006 @ 12:50 pm
the dumbest person is the one who spreaded the video.. her whole future is ruined haha. i think the tammy girl is not at fault.. i mean whatever she wants to do with herself is up to her.. nth got to do with her being slutty or whatever.. it is just that she is quite silly to film it on her hp
Comment by cyn — February 21, 2006 @ 3:23 pm
Haven’t you heard? Nice girls don’t have sex outside of marriage. Only sluts do. Guys, on the other hand, have carte blanche to fuck around all the time.
Comment by Tym — February 22, 2006 @ 11:49 am
Embarrassing for Who?
From Global Voices
All over the Singapore blogosphere are commentaries on an unfortunate high school cheerleader, nicknamed “Tammy NYP,” whose …
Trackback by Singabloodypore — February 24, 2006 @ 2:44 am
I’ve seen the video. I think attention should be on the guy. The girl is hot…but the guy has a really small dick.
Comment by Maestro — February 24, 2006 @ 4:38 am
“Haven’t you heard? Nice girls don’t have sex outside of marriage. Only sluts do. Guys, on the other hand, have carte blanche to fuck around all the time.”
That’s what i hate about our society. How come it is ok for guys to do that, whereas girls are looked down upon if they’ve done that. It’s usually the girls fault even though it takes two to tango. Attentions always on the girl. People should focus less attention on the girl, and more on the guy instead…although that’s probably hard since most of them are guys looking to view porn, and no ones interested in looking at the guy.
Comment by anonymous — February 25, 2006 @ 12:31 pm
“That’s what i hate about our society.”
it’s not just our society.
Comment by tinkertailor — February 25, 2006 @ 1:18 pm
Someone has to tell Tammy this important message, “God forgives you and we all forgive you for your mistake”. Start your life holy and right again. Come to church and this is the place where you find life again. No one will condemn you here and everyone welcomes you because the church is the place where you get to be re-born and live again. God loves you.
Comment by Love 4 Sinners — February 25, 2006 @ 4:06 pm